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Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Sex and the City of God...Series on Marriage


Sex and the City of God
Series on Marriage
Outine
Gender Roles Husband & Wife Are Equal Worth To God
-Gen 1:26-28
-Gen 2:21-25
God Made
“Male and Female”
“Replenish and Ruling”
Curses After Fall
-Pain in Child Birth
-Tyranny in Headship
-Rebellion in Submission
-Work Will Be Hard
-Presence of Toil and Pain
Baptist Faith and Message
The roles function to show how Christ loves the Church.
Ethical Application
Marriage Between Believer and Unbeliever
You think it is possible for an unbeliever to understand that marriage is a PICTURE of how Christ LOVES the Church?
Wouldn’t even know what love is EXCEPT God loved us FIRST
1 John 4:7-11
But…What Does Paul Say in 1 Cor.7:10-14

Saturday, January 24, 2009

Youth Bible Study 2009....Ten Commandments Intro (Teaching Outline)

Youth Bible Study 2009
The Ten Commandments

Background Particulars
-The law…Rules to follow…The law came in the time of Moses, before Jesus Christ, therefore, before the gospel as we know it. It was these commandments that guided the Christian life.
-10 commandments (rules) that encompasses every ethical decision to be made…this is done with a broad and narrow approach….discuss later
-Written by GOD HIMSELF as a guide for His people…shows God’s character and love for His people

10 Commandments
Duty to God…First Four Love Your God
Parallels Matthew 22:36-40

Duty to man…Remaining Six Love Your Neighbor

Broad and Narrow
All Ethics (applied theology) Can Be split Into 10 Commandments.
All one needs is the 10 Commandments to make proper biblically sound decisions.

Narrow Meaning ___________________
Honor Your Father and Mother
Broad Meaning ____________________
So What Does This Mean
God did not give just 10 rules to follow…He gave an ethical system to study and adhere to.
Man LOVES rules and structure
Examples
People in same seats on Sundays
You have to write a paper or project you have never done before
Start something new (school, career, job) rules tell you what to expect and how to study

Friday, January 23, 2009

Sex and the City of God...Marriage is An Image


I have started a 6 week series on marriage with my youth group and this past Wednesday was the second lesson in that series. I started this series first of all because after reading and preparing and going through pre-marriage counciling I decided to further my studies and become the man of God and husband God would have me to be but I also did this for my youth. They would deny it infront of me of course but in some way or another they are thinking about the opposite sex whether it is physical, bf and gf, or dating and I consider it a role of mine to teach them BIBLICALLY what marriage means and what they should be doing now that honors God.
It is more important, now more than ever that teenagers from a biblical point of view understand what marriage is and how to prepare their life in order for God to bless them with the one they should marry and this is the reason for this biblical series on Wed Nite Youth at NHBC.


Marriage Is A Picture
“Marriage…That thing when you hang out a lot…”
Do You Think This Is A Good Picture of Christ?
What Is A Picture? ____________________
What Is An Icon? ____________________

God Created Marriage…..To Show A Picture
A Picture of His Love for the Church

Isaiah 62:5
Ephesians 5:25-33
1 Corinthians 6:15-20
2 Corinthians 11:2

First of all we don’t deserve to show His love
Most ppl misuse God’s purpose of marriage
This misuse destroys the image of God’s love

GROW TO BE AN IMAGE BEARER NOT BREAKER


Ethical Issue SINGLENESS
God calls some people to singleness
But with conditions
1 Corinthians 7:1-9
-To be single is a gift from God
-Paul says it is good to be like he is, single so to focus

ALL TIME and ALL ENERGY to the Lord’s work
-One must be content…

My Wedding Vows...Accountability

My wedding vows to Britney was the easiest and yet hardest thing I have ever written. It was easy in that we connect and have so much in common and I have such a deep love for her but hard because of having to put that love into word. We choose to write our own vows in addition to the traditional to add that special unique touch to our wedding ceremony. These vows were read by me (crying just about the entire time) to Britney infront of all our family and friends and is a promise to my wife and I post it here to keep me even that much more accountable. Marriage was created by God to show a picture of how God loves the church. I pray that who attended heard my vows and all here read them and keep me accountable to the point that when people look at my marriage with Britney and see my love for her that they can take a step back and say.......WOW........That is how much God loves me!!


My Dearest Britney

I look at the facts and the calendar on the wall and things just don’t seem to add up. I think back to when we first met when I was in the 6th grade over 10 years ago and see how close we have become. I think back to our first date Dec 29 2005 3 years ago where God would lead us to where we are today. I even look back to when I placed this ring on your finger on Dec 23 2 years ago and remember July 31 2006 when I asked your dad for his blessing for a wedding to come in the future and he responded jokingly at the time, the years will feel like days but Britney that was the truth. Only days have passed since our first meeting and date due to my deep love for you and we still have forever set before us.

When I look at you it is easy to see that God has a perfect plan that was set in motion long before this 27th day of December year 2008. Britney Joy, I look back and realize I have loved you my entire life. I did not always know what you looked like but I knew of the relationship with God my wife would have, her dedication to her church and family, what it took to make her feel special…like brushing hair out of your face… or even going on a paddle boat ride at my grandparents house, I even knew what made her laugh. God is the one who revealed these attributes of my future and I can stand here today, before God, before my family and yours and know that you are the wife that God created for me. I have loved you my entire life, the only thing that has changed is that I know what she looks like. God is perfect and therefore would have a perfect plan but the AMAZING thing is not that God has a perfect plan but that God takes time to show us His plan.

When on our 1st date you laid your head on my shoulder and later you told me “I could do this forever”…God revealed His plan

When God revealed our mutual love for Christian service, family, mission trips, science and knowledge…God revealed His plan

When God brought me to serve in this church under the leadership of my pastor, friend, mentor all of these being your father…God revealed His plan

God has a perfect plan but the truly amazing part is that He chose to reveal it to sinful man whom is not worthy. And this very day, Britney we choose to have a plan to be married for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health but from this day I choose to not have a plan to love you but vow to reveal my love for you day after day. No matter the time, situation or hardships…a marriage with you will feel like days safe in God’s perfect plan for my life….I love you and always will

Saturday, January 17, 2009

Sex and the City of God...Biblical Marriage Series


Creation of Marriage (Teaching Outline)


Redemptive Story
The writings found in the Bible were placed there and written for a specific reason. If one were to read Scripture looking for a purpose, one would find that it is quite clear what it would be. After reading and looking at the Scriptures as a whole, one would find that the story of the Bible is the narrative of God coming to be with his people as their Lord, in his countrol, authority, and presence. After the creation and teh fall, the story is about redemption, and thus about Jesus.

It is all about God coming to rule over man and after the fall it was on Jesus coming to die for the sins of man on the cross at Calvary. In the perspective of marriage, it is very important to see that Jesus is and always has been God's plan to save humanity. Jesus was not some afterthought or a plan b after Adam and Eve sinned but was ALWAYS the plan and means and this thought points us into the right direction. If Jesus was the plan, how was Jesus to come amoung man, to live and die?


God’s Intention for Marriage-Gen 1 and 2

Giving of Cultural Mandate-Gen 1:28
-Man’s whole life is governed by God’s Commands
-Man is to subdue the Earth and have Dominion over
-Fruitful; Multiply and fill the earth with human beings created in the image of God

who, and fill the Earth with divine presence.
Protoevangelium-Gen 3:15

The family is the vehicle God uses to fulfill His purpose for our lives, the culture mandate and the coming of Jesus (redemptive story). God used marriage and family to bring Jesus and without Jesus we would not have a chance.

Ethical Issue-When Is The Right Time?

Bible doesn’t specify age of marriage (therefore) sex.
During Bible times, people got married younger
(Suits male sexual peak….Less single parents)
But young marriage today doesn’t fit well into modern culture
Cant reach proper education levels for career
Age and Biblical teaching keeps marriage….Now Days

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Al Mohler on Election of Obama as President

The election of Sen. Barack Obama as the 44th President of the United States came as a bang, not a whimper. The tremors had been perceptible for days, maybe even weeks. On Tuesday, America experienced nothing less than a political and cultural earthquake.
The margin of victory for the Democratic ticket was clear. Americans voted in record numbers and with tangible enthusiasm. By the end of the day, it was clear that Barack Obama would be elected with a majority of the popular vote and a near landslide in the Electoral College. When President-Elect Obama greeted the throngs of his supporters in Chicago's Grant Park, he basked in the glory of electoral energy.
For many of us, the end of the night brought disappointment. In this case, the disappointment is compounded by the sense that the issues that did not allow us to support Sen. Obama are matters of life and death -- not just political issues of heated debate. Furthermore, the margin of victory and sense of a shift in the political landscape point to greater disappointments ahead. We all knew that so much was at stake.
For others, the night was magical and momentous. Young and old cried tears of amazement and victory as America elected its first African-American President -- and elected him overwhelmingly. Just forty years after the assassination of Dr. Martin Luther King, an African-American stood to claim victory as President-Elect of the nation. As Sen. Obama assured the crowd in Chicago and the watching nation, "We will get there. We will get there." No one hearing those words could fail to hear the refrain of plaintive words spoken in Memphis four decades ago. President-Elect Obama would stand upon the mountaintop that Dr. King had foreseen.
That victory is a hallmark moment in history for all Americans -- not just for those who voted for Sen. Obama. As a nation, we will never think of ourselves the same way again. Americans rich and poor, black and white, old and young, will look to an African-American man and know him as President of the United States. The President. The only President. The elected President. Our President.
Every American should be moved by the sight of young African-Americans who -- for the first time -- now believe that they have a purchase in American democracy. Old men and old women, grandsons and granddaughters of slaves and slaveholders, will look to an African-American as President.
Regardless of politics, could anyone remain unmoved by the sight of Jesse Jackson crying alone amidst the crowd in Chicago? This dimension of Election Day transcends politics and touches the heart of the American people.
Yet, the issues and the politics remain. Given the scale of the Democratic victory, the political landscape will be completely reshaped. The fight for the dignity and sanctity of unborn human beings has been set back by a great loss, and by the election of a President who has announced his intention to sign the Freedom of Choice Act into law. The struggle to protect marriage against its destruction by redefinition is now complicated by the election of a President who has declared his aim to repeal the Defense of Marriage Act. On issue after issue, we face a longer, harder, and more protracted struggle than ever before.
Still, we must press on as advocates for the unborn, for the elderly, for the infirm, and for the vulnerable. We must redouble our efforts to defend marriage and the integrity of the family. We must be vigilant to protect religious liberty and the freedom of the pulpit. We face awesome battles ahead.
At the same time, we must be honest and recognize that the political maps are being redrawn before our eyes. Will the Republican Party decide that conservative Christians are just too troublesome for the party and see the pro-life movement as a liability? There is the real danger that the Republicans, stung by this defeat, will adopt a libertarian approach to divisive moral issues and show conservative Christians the door.
Others will declare these struggles over, arguing that the election of Sen. Obama means that Americans in general -- and many younger Evangelicals in particular -- are ready to "move on" to other issues. This is no time for surrender or the abandonment of our core principles. We face a much harder struggle ahead, but we have no right to abandon the struggle.
We should look for opportunities to work with the new President and his administration where we can. We must hope that he will lead and govern as the bridge-builder he claimed to be in his campaign. We must confront and oppose the Obama administration where conscience demands, but work together where conscience allows.
Evangelical Christians face another challenge with the election of Sen. Obama, and a failure to rise to this challenge will bring disrepute upon the Gospel, as well as upon ourselves. There must be absolutely no denial of the legitimacy of President-Elect Obama's election and no failure to accord this new President the respect and honor due to anyone elected to that high office. Failure in this responsibility is disobedience to a clear biblical command.
Beyond this, we must commit ourselves to pray for this new President, for his wife and family, for his administration, and for the nation. We are commanded to pray for rulers, and this new President faces challenges that are not only daunting but potentially disastrous. May God grant him wisdom. He and his family will face new challenges and the pressures of this office. May God protect them, give them joy in their family life, and hold them close together.
We must pray that God will protect this nation even as the new President settles into his role as Commander in Chief, and that God will grant peace as he leads the nation through times of trial and international conflict and tension.
We must pray that God would change President-Elect Obama's mind and heart on issues of our crucial concern. May God change his heart and open his eyes to see abortion as the murder of the innocent unborn, to see marriage as an institution to be defended, and to see a host of issues in a new light. We must pray this from this day until the day he leaves office. God is sovereign, after all.
Without doubt, we face hard days ahead. Realistically, we must expect to be frustrated and disappointed. We may find ourselves to be defeated and discouraged. We must keep ever in mind that it is God who raises up nations and pulls them down, and who judges both nations and rulers. We must not act or think as unbelievers, or as those who do not trust God.
America has chosen a President. President-Elect Barack Obama is that choice, and he faces a breathtaking array of challenges and choices in days ahead. This is the time for Christians to begin praying in earnest for our new President. There is no time to lose.

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

The Church...Club to Join or Future of Christian Faith

I saw a Catholic cartoon recently and on the cartoon a little girl was rejected admittance to her friends’ Superhero Club, until she exhibited great bravery by jumping into the river and saving a three-year-old boy. The superheroes henceforth offered her an invitation to join their club, which she denied boldly proclaiming to be a part of the greatest club of all—the church.

Is there perhaps a better way to describe the Church today? Are we teaching our children that being part of the Body of Christ is likened unto membership in a super-duper club? Is that something we should be proud of? Would Stephen, the first martyr of the Church, be content with the consideration of Christianity as a social club? Would Peter consider the Christianity for which he was, crucified upside down, a social club? Would Paul take all those stripes, be stoned, imprisoned, and ship-wrecked time and time again for a social club? A study of the book of the Acts of the Apostles has no such mention of this social club of Christianity. I doubt Jesus had “social club” in mind when He said “If anyone would come after me, He must deny himself take up his cross and follow Me.” The members of the early church would scoff at our pitiful attempt to do church today in America.

Let us examine the definition of social club: a formal association of people with similar interests. Think of your church group, and compare and contrast it with the definition of social club. Chances are you are finding that your church group fits the definition for social club very well. That might not seem entirely bad, on the surface. Naturally your church group is a group people gathered together formally for a common purpose. The American Heritage Dictionary defines church as “a building for public, especially Christian worship.” Okay, now let us examine what is before us. Given these two definitions we can define Christianity in America as, “a social club gathered together in a church.” Now I suppose it seems a bit worse eh (that is not a typo)? A few more components to American Christianity should be added to this definition including (with no particular order: excruciatingly tight schedule (in order to keep mandatory lunch obligations), no more than two meetings per week, assigned seating, sour countenances, and invitations printed only for those whom we like. Finally we can construct the entire definition of American Christianity: a social club gathered together with an excruciatingly tight schedule, assigned seating, sour countenances, in a church; where invitations are only extended for those who are “liked” by the members of the social club.

We have a false concept of what “church” means. Church is not a place to go, or a thing to do, rather according to the original Greek it is “a gathering of citizens called out from their homes into some public place, an assembly.” Read that closely, “a gathering of citizens;” so in other words, the Church is a group of people, not a building. If you have truly repented of sin and believed in Jesus, then you do not go to church, you are the Church. The aspects of the American church that seem to be missing from the scriptural church are the time schedule, the one particular building, the assigned seating, the sour countenances, and the lack of invitation. The American church also lacks the zeal, persecution, and witness that the New Testament church had so abundantly.
The Apostles saw thousands of people come to Jesus on multiple occasions, baptizing as many as three-thousand in one day. When is the last time any of our American churches saw more than ten or twenty (or one) come to Christ in one gathering? The early church was hated by the world around it for its radical message, and the members were often beaten and martyred for their faith? When is the last time one of our American churches was persecuted because of the radical message of faith in Jesus? The members of the early church took witnessing seriously, and took the message of the Gospel to the streets? When is the last time ten percent of a congregation of more went door-to-door witnessing in one day? Perhaps they had it all wrong in Peter, Paul, and John’s day. Perhaps the Apostles should have practiced hour long services, with twenty-five minute long sermons, five songs, and an offertory hymn. Timothy and Barnabas should have just made friends with the world, built a building, drank a cup of coffee, ate a doughnut, and gone to lunch where they could talk about things that are truly important; such as football and NASCAR.

Maybe we are apart of a great club, but that club is in direct contradiction to the Biblical picture of the Church. Eventually, if we do not correct this issue ourselves, this issue will be corrected for us and I do not believe we are going to enjoy the process of that correction.